tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3007649283775805988.post8996043329071159422..comments2024-01-31T06:29:45.884-08:00Comments on Luna Rain: Community PoliticsLuna Rainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08464262368460043966noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3007649283775805988.post-25892527997033323342017-10-12T03:05:23.388-07:002017-10-12T03:05:23.388-07:00Your community sounds absolutely lovely <3 I th...Your community sounds absolutely lovely <3 I think that it is really good that you share out the hosting duties and don't have a defined 'leader'. A lot of communities work better when the enthusiasm is there and people are willing to help each other. I think a lot of the problems I found is that when one person makes a lot of effort it can be easy for others to take that for granted and then not bother to make the effort themselves. I really love your comment 'we are people before lolitas' because it is so true! Luna Rainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08464262368460043966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3007649283775805988.post-51042447637793162642017-09-25T19:21:14.556-07:002017-09-25T19:21:14.556-07:00I'm totally agree! And i rly want to say my op...I'm totally agree! And i rly want to say my opinion. Sorry for my bad english, sometimes i study reading post like this but the topic is important.<br /><br />I learned all of this in my community too, but i feel lucky cause there arent dramas. We dont make polls about the day of the next meet because we realise everybody votes and only few members came. A kind of "rule" in our community is make a reunion once a month, and everytime the host in someone different. This person pick de venue, day and hour and nobody can complain. Is easier and if u cant come to this meet, there will be another the next month or you can be volunteer for be the next host. I know there are many girls (and boys too) in this fashion with a childish attitude, but here the people can sit in the same table even if they have misunderstandings. <br /><br />I stopped to get a little mad when nobody come to my meet, because i understood lolita is not priority for other people as is for me and is fine. We are people before lolitas and it's not a personal matter! Ppl live lolita in community and other people don't, but the people who prefers live lolita alone is always welcome if they want to come a meet someday.<br /><br />There's no a "leader", and the responsability is shared always.<br /><br />My community is small, but there are an incredible people therem <3 is think the key is no to take any comment or behavior personal.Yurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12734921969791341153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3007649283775805988.post-38760321469707490682017-09-21T03:03:16.046-07:002017-09-21T03:03:16.046-07:00I totally agree, a lot of what I said is common se...I totally agree, a lot of what I said is common sense! I suppose that when you are in certain situations it is easy to lose that common sense though. It just made me feel really angry reading some of the comments I saw online and I guess I needed to vent!Luna Rainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08464262368460043966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3007649283775805988.post-59458702625538115812017-09-15T23:02:51.545-07:002017-09-15T23:02:51.545-07:00This is a really good post! To me, everything you ...This is a really good post! To me, everything you mention just seems like common sense but as they say, sometimes it really ought to be called uncommon sense, to thanks for sharing :)Rolihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17397860759056883709noreply@blogger.com